5 steps to use the law of attraction to attract love, a home, a job, and more
Did you know that, even if you’ve never heard of it, you are using the Law of Attraction right now? Also known as the law of attraction, the power of intention or spiritual co-creation, I suggest you take stock of this universal law. And learn how to use it consciously to better attract love, a house, a job or whatever you want in your life.
You think it’s too good to be true? Well, thanks to the Law of Attraction I hugged a world famous artist! I had never heard of attraction or co-creation at the time! I’ll tell you about it at the end of this article.
What is the law of attraction and co-creation
Before we look together at the steps to use the law of attraction and the blocks you might encounter, it is necessary to know what we are talking about.
The law of attraction is a universal law, according to which we attract to us what we feel.
This power of attraction is based on the vibratory and connected nature of our Universe. That is to say that everything that exists in our world (you, me, a tomato, the sun, a pen, a cat, etc.) emits a vibration. And that everything that exists is connected at an energetic level.
And even though all this happens in the invisible world, this vibration is measurable. It is called the vibratory rate, which varies according to what you feel, think, do, say, how tired you are, etc.
Moreover, in addition to being a transmitter, you are also a receiver. That is, you “pick up” the vibrations emitted by your environment.
Therefore, when we say that we attract what we feel, it means that we attract what vibrates at a vibratory rate and frequency equivalent to ours.
But, as we have seen, you don’t have to be an expert in quantum physics for this to work. Because the Law of Attraction has been active in your life since you were born, whether you are aware of it or not.
The challenge is to learn to use it consciously to attract what you want into your life. This is what we call co-creation, that is to say, creating your life by “working as a team” with the laws of the Universe and the visible and invisible worlds.
5 steps to use the law of attraction to attract everything
1st step of co-creation: Activate the power of intention
Every intention has its origin in a desire. So you start by asking yourself the question: “What do I want? Do you want to find love? To do your dream job? Live in a house on the coast?
Then, you’ll need to explore that desire to formulate an intention that truly matches what you want to attract and experience.
For example, let’s say you want to find love. You might tell yourself that your intention is to find love. You might be disappointed…
First, because the word “find” is not clear about what happens once you have found. Is your love reciprocated? Does he/she want to commit to you? Does he/she want to have children? Etc.
And second, because the word “love” has a very broad meaning. Is it the love you feel for yourself, your child, a parent, your dog, the universe, etc.?
So you understand that in order to formulate an effective intention, you need to follow some common sense rules.
6 tips for formulating an effective intention
- Express clearly what you want;
- Respect the free will of each person;
- Remain open to all possibilities;
- Speak in the present tense, as if things have already happened;
- Express positively (you express what you want, not what you don’t want);
- Be sincere: the Universe reads you like an open book . If you are not honest with yourself, you risk blocking the realization of your intention.
Going back to our example, “finding love” becomes:
- Clarity: I live in a relationship
- Free will: with a man I love and who loves me (instead of “with my ex, with my boss, with Brad Pitt,” etc.);
- Open: a man (again, not your ex, not a dark-haired guy, etc.);
- Present tense: I live (instead of “I will live”);
- Positive: we are starting a family together (instead of “a man who is not afraid to start a family, a man who is not afraid to make a commitment,” etc.).
- Sincere: You really want to be in a relationship and start a family with someone.
So this is the intention you might formulate: I am in a relationship with a man. We love each other and are starting a family together.
Of course, you’ll want to adapt this advice to your situation, to create an intention that reflects your desires and the words you usually use.
Once you have formulated your intention, you will read it over at least once a day.
And to increase its effectiveness, I also suggest that you contemplate a visualization board for 3 minutes a day.
2nd step of the Law of Attraction: Letting go with confidence
Your intention and your visualization chart will have allowed you to send a message to the Universe. The next step is more of a testimony of your faith in it. It’s about letting go of the outcome you’re hoping for.
What does this mean?
That you trust Life to have received your message. And that, just as the flutter of a butterfly’s wing can cause a hurricane on the other side of the world, you know that the chain reaction that will bring you the desired result has already begun.
On the other hand, letting go also means that you let the Universe take care of the details to achieve the desired result. This is why it is necessary to set an intention that is open to possibilities.
So, at this point, you are relying on something bigger than yourself to show you how you can get what you want. So you are in a spiritual process of welcoming what comes.
3rd step to co-create your life : Listen to the answers of the Universe
Once your intention has been expressed, it is possible that it will be realized quickly. And it is also possible that you will receive guidance to show you how to achieve it. But you still need to know how to recognize it!
Here are the types of responses you may receive (depending on your level of openness and practice):
- Insights ;
- Through a “medium” (oracle, tarot, pendulum, etc.);
- Visions ;
- Creative impulses.
If you feel like you are not getting an answer from experience, I can tell you that the Universe always responds to our requests. On the other hand, it can sometimes feel like “it” is not working for different reasons:
You didn’t notice the answers: because you were tired, because it didn’t correspond to what you had imagined (in this case, I suggest you review step 2 on letting go), etc.
You misinterpreted: it happens to everyone. In this case, rest assured that you have the right to make a mistake. There is no “game over” in co-creation, so try again.
4th step of the law of attraction: Always say thank you
As we have seen, in the Law of Attraction you ask and the Universe answers. The least you can do in return is say thank you, right?
First, because you are polite. Secondly, because when you see that you get answers to your requests you will surely be amazed, as I am every time.
Remember, you attract what you feel. And the better you feel, the more situations and people you attract that feel the same way.
It’s a virtuous circle.
Therefore, don’t forget to express your gratitude every time you receive guidance and your intentions are fulfilled.
>>> Related article: how to practice gratitude
5th step to co-create your life: take inspired actions
Finally, once you’ve completed steps 1 through 4, it’s time to take action! But not just any actions. Actions inspired by the signs and guidance you receive by listening.
In other words, it is now a matter of seizing the opportunities that arise, following your intuitions, concretizing the ideas that you will have received, etc.
Even if you don’t yet see how this will help you to achieve your intention! Because you have to see the Law of Attraction as a treasure hunt, in which you collect the clues as you go along.
For example, a few years ago I knew that my way of life was no longer suitable for me. However, even though I wanted to change my life, I still had no idea how I wanted to live and work.
So I started by reconnecting to who I am, what I can bring to others and co-create in the world. Then integrating all that into my daily life as much as possible. Even though, at first, I had no idea how I would be able to make a living from it.
If I had waited until I had all the answers before starting, my life would not have changed.
And through ideas, insights, encounters, opportunities and inspired actions I built my business plan and Liberate Your Life was born.
What to do when you don’t attract what you want
Why the law of attraction doesn’t always seem to work
By following the 5 steps we’ve just discussed, you’ll find that things will become more fluid. That is, you’ll have “easy and timely resolutions to some of your concerns. And ease of action. “As Dominique said after taking my “Learning to love yourself” training.
But it is also possible that you are not able to attract what you want as easily. Or even that you attract the opposite of what you want!
Why is this?
To understand this, let’s imagine two people whose intention is to take time every day for their personal development and well-being.
And now let’s imagine that one of them holds the belief that taking time for oneself is a source of fulfillment, pleasure and good physical and mental health. And that the other holds the belief that taking time for oneself is selfish, a waste of time and letting down one’s family and responsibilities.
Which of these two people do you think will easily achieve their intention? And which one will “struggle” and have more important things to do?
What to do to achieve your intention
Unfortunately, many people equate the law of attraction with positive thinking. And quickly think that it doesn’t work if they don’t get what they want quickly.
It’s actually more subtle than that:
The Law of Attraction will grant you as much as you are willing to grant yourself, on a conscious and unconscious level.
And in other words, if you sincerely want to manifest the man or woman of your life but you hold beliefs like “I don’t deserve to be loved” or “men are unfaithful” or “I’m too old to meet someone”, you’ll have a hard time getting there. you will have a hard time doing this.
Therefore, the first step in spiritual co-creation is to understand how your conscious and unconscious beliefs work. And how they influence all your decisions.