Many people are extremely frustrated by the lack of resutas for manifesting, because for years they have been studying the principles of the law of attraction, they devour all the books that have been published on the subject, they understand perfectly the mechanisms and subtleties of this law, and yet, they still do not see their dearest wishes come true!
They have sometimes (often even) achieved a lot of small things, sometimes even big things, but the things they want the most are still at the « dream » stage and despite their efforts, nothing happens, or on the contrary, everything seems to be going wrong in this regard.
So today I propose to review the 5 common mistakes when manifesting.
1 ) Believing that positive thinking is enough to attract what you want!
Positive thinking only occurs at the conscious level; therefore, positive thinking is not enough to implement the law of attraction. It is necessary that the belief also enters the subconscious mind.
The mind always operates on two levels, the subconscious and the conscious. The conscious mind receives hundreds of bits of information from the five senses at any given time. This is an incredible amount of information to process, even from a tool as advanced as the human brain. The mind would slowly go mad if it had to process all this information all the time.
Instead, the mind has developed the conscious mind, which serves as a filter to examine the information sent to it by the senses and retain everything it deems important. Anything it does not consider important is passed on to the subconscious mind. It is the subconscious mind that will retain this information, acting as the keeper of repressed memories until these memories are needed again.
It has long been recognized that the subconscious mind has a direct effect on the actions and beliefs of the conscious mind, a subject that will be discussed in more detail later, but for now suffice it to say that if the conscious mind attempts to think positive thoughts while the subconscious retains negative energy, the two will cancel each other out and the desired effect will not be achieved.
2) Become impatient!
The universe operates at its own speed; remember that every action has an equal and opposite reaction. It is essential that the other environmental conditions are right for an event to occur as it should.
This means that the Law of Attraction can take weeks, months or even years to produce a successful reaction to a single individual’s desires. People in today’s society are spoiled; they want what they want and they want it now. A new theory that does not produce instant results will not be received with much favor.
Furthermore, not believing in the Law of Attraction because it doesn’t follow established timelines (after all, it never says precisely when all those wonderful rewards will be reaped, only that they will be) is a direct violation of the guidelines required to see positive results in itself.
Trust the universe
You were only testing the Law of Attraction to see if it will produce results; if you had confidence in its ability to produce the desired results, you would just sit back and wait, knowing that what you want most will come to you in due course.
On the other hand, the fact that you are not indicates that you do not have confidence in its ability to produce the desired results. It means that somewhere in your being there is a small core of negative energy, enough to throw a monkey wrench into the whole process of positive attraction. Remember, if you vibrate negative energy, you will attract negative energy back to you.
3 ) Determine in advance how and when you will attract what you want!
Let the universe work! It is possible to be so focused on what you think is going to happen that you manage to totally miss the event when it does happen if it doesn’t happen exactly as you imagined.
As we said earlier, the universe will choose its own time and place for all things to happen, and these events can happen in some pretty unusual ways.
By predefining exactly how you will receive the rewards you seek, you take the choice out of the hands of nature, which direct the ebb and flow of life’s energies, and set yourself up for a hard fall.
By taking the ability to choose over yourself, you are essentially saying that you have no faith in the ability of the law of attraction to produce the desired results in time; again, by setting your own timetable for events to occur,
you will end up not believing in the Law of Attraction (after all, it didn’t do what it was supposed to do, did it?), which will cause your subconscious mind to radiate negative energy that will drive out the positive energy.
4) Allow your emotions to be guided by external evidence
To take full advantage of the Law of Attraction, you must believe that what you see now is the result of what you have attracted so far;
Again, it is essential that you realize that what has happened in your life so far and what will happen later is determined by you. Whatever successes or failures you have experienced have been the result of the energies that your body and mind have released into the universe.
It is very easy to look at the events of your life and think, « I certainly didn’t want this to happen; the law of attraction must be wrong because I would never wish for something so horrible. What you need to realize is that it is not always what your conscious mind wishes that influences what your subconscious mind projects.
5) Not removing limiting beliefs
Often people fall into a cycle of self-destruction because they are unable to control the thoughts and attitudes of their subconscious. A common argument against the Law of Attraction is, « Why is there so much suffering in the world if people have the ability to determine the events of their lives?
No, these people did not choose a life of starvation and servitude; however, because of their history, many of them do not really believe they have a choice.
This disbelief in their ability to change their situation because « this is the way it has always been » means that they will continue to live this way. Their subconscious mind continues to project this disbelief and negative energy into the universe, drawing out the negative energy that will keep them living in this cycle of self-destructive events.
It is those who have dared to dream, and believe in the possibilities of those dreams, who have made the greatest changes in the world.
The removal of limiting beliefs like these is absolutely vital for the Law of Attraction to work as it should. If you really feel that the Law of Attraction is not working for you, take a moment to think about the things you want.
Do you really believe that these events can happen, or are you just wishful thinking? Do you secretly believe that you have a one in a million chance that one of these things will actually happen for some reason?
You must believe in your change!
In order to project the positive vibrations that are necessary to attract the energies of the universe to you. It is essential that you are one hundred percent confident in your ability to make a change and willing to believe that all the events that have occurred up to this point have been a necessary precondition to making them happen.
Now that you know the 5 common mistakes when manifesting, apply them in your daily life and the law of attraction will always respond to your requests.